It is of no surprise during America's lean economic times that many lives are dominated by boredom and emptiness as they face leaner pockets from financial strife. Many have a tendency to mentally fold inward, moving into a cave of loneliness to try and sort things out. The excitement and vitality of their relationships that once was has turned to disaffection and hostility.
When one's security is threatened it actually fuels hostility because so many lives are governed strictly through the emotions- and yes let's face it -money is a needed tool in our lives in that the things which sustains us cost. When faced with financial issues fear and worry become the mental dictates for many. It is so easy to spin away with dictates of negative emotions.
During these times you must create a loving environment within your relationships and be aware of growth and potential which always exist in chaos. Move toward those you love and care about and not away from. Now is not the time to visit your cave. As you move towards them , see love as a practice of acceptance. Accept and acknowledge the fact of the situation as it is and then begin to work on/through it. Embrace your family , your partners, your special someone, include them , engage them in critical conversations. All will be better off for it.
Eliminate any idea that you will not get through these difficult times; be optimistic about your future. The future we created yesterday is happening now and we have the opportunity to see what is working or not as we plan tomorrow today. Accept that whatever upsets you're experiencing there is a solution; lay your plan, set your goal, work it until you are where you want or need to be.
Be alive to new possibilities, in your relationships at this time. Allow your love to evolve at this time. Watch these lean times turn to a period of recovery and yes you can go ahead and say it; looks like we made it.
Let's Restore Love
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