Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Trust

Why do you fret about your relationships?  Why are you not comfortable with the fact that you are loved and that you are quite capable of loving?  Somewhere there is someone that loves you.  In the universal scheme of things, we have the capacity and ability to love just as we have the ability to satisfy our need for energy when hungry.  Food and love are essential to living.  One is just as important to life as the other.  Just as food has to be farmed, harvested and prepared to be enjoyed, love has a similar process to enjoyment.  First step in that process is trust.

Do not expect to reap the full benefits of love without the key nutrient which is trust.  In perpetual love, trust is unquestionable.  You cannot snoop through the children's dresser drawers, under their mattress  or search your partners pockets, wallets, purses, email accounts  when you trust.  To do this states you trust as long as there is proof of their innocence.  

Examine the various relationships where you are loved and where you love others (be it intimate or otherwise), do you trust? Can you trust? Are there reservations to trusting?  Can you be trusted? Start today to be completely honest with those you love.  Honesty is the yellow brick road to trusting.  Trust that once you are completely honest in all your interactions with those you love, you enter a new dimension of loving where joy is supreme. 

A word to those who continue to play emotional /mental games with themselves and others.  Stop it!  Learn to Love .

Let's Restore Love

MJ