So here we are again approaching another Christmas.  The holidays and Christmas especially are intended to bring families closer together and thereby seal scenarios that will translate into traditions for years to come.  Holidays also bring out that unhappy family member who hates the world and all in it; the eternal scrooges who detest joy.  They come and each year everyone tips on eggshells to avoid an encounter with them.  Out of love for family, they are always welcome and some good nature family member tries to play the peacekeeper to avoid a loose cannon in the room.

Its sad but many Christmas festivities are nearly ruined by these individuals.  They are family and they cannot be ignored, at least not by those who love and value their family.  The greatest advice here is to embrace the person; shower them with loving kindness.  After all the holiday is just one day; how much harm can they really cause? Really?

Tolerance is also love.  To love is to be tolerant of others.  To look at the situation from their perspective and the only way to know their perspective is to be tolerant enough to listen and not judge.  So you love me is what one must think and smile.