Have you taken note of today's great visual artists? A new era in art has risen and a few of today's artists have surpassed the Masters. Check out the works of ( Seventh International Sand Sculpture Festival). Those sculpted works at the festival can act as reminders that we shape our world into whatever we want it to be. Not only our physical world ,as the artist does in the sand; but aspects of our other worlds, especially, the paradigm we call love. Sculpting our way to joy.
What is meant here is this: Examine the value of your life and your relationship/s with open eyes; assess this value carefully for it leads to joy and what many term happiness. Who can say, I am where I want to be? I am where I want to be in terms of my relationships and all other aspects of my life. In the assessment, are you comfortable? Are you content? Are you secure in the fact that someone loves you back? What last did you do to reinforce this comfort? When last did you wink at an issue instead of exploding? Why are your dreams only dreams? Why are all your relationships empty? Create a stage where the two of you can be audience to each other. Can you see?
Some still chase seminar gurus who encourage taking risks. Risk taking is more suitable to desperate people who have a concept that it is noble to -and the spoils taste better if they -take a risk. Think about it.
Risk; a gamble , a chance, a danger, probability, hazard, lay on the line, put on the line, expose to loss or damage.
In other words the possibility of a win based on hope for a favorable outcome. There is no need to take risks when changing your conditions; the order is there and you will carry out/accomplish what is in your heart to do. If you have a significant other, develop and create with that person. State the goals for your relationship. Why do you want a relationship in the first place? Create that. Establish a system to keep each other actively involved. Discuss and correct aversive behavior if discovered.
You will find - in changing conditions, you create the life and love you want.
On the other hand, if your heart is not in agreement with your aim, you get quantity versus
quality and sometimes ,depending on the risks, you get nothing and end up stuck
in the sands of life hoping for a re-creation. Control your condition and change your life.
